Happy Easter my wonderful friends!
As I sat on the couch and watched my kids running around this morning, my heart filled with gratitude, my mind began wandering.
I began thinking about all of the moms in recovery, who are working to rebuild their lives, piece by piece.
The moms who didn’t have the opportunity to spend the night excitedly making special Easter baskets for their babies.
The moms who woke up this morning to heartbreaking silence.
The moms who wish more than anything that they could have watched as their babies gleefully popped colorful eggs open, their little faces covered in chocolate, giggling uncontrollably with excitement; but didn’t have that opportunity because they’re only just beginning their journey in recovery.
The moms who are busting their ass to repair relationships with their children after addiction.
I want you all to know that you have already given your children the greatest Easter gift they could ever hope to receive – you got sober.
I know firsthand the willpower, determination, resilience and strength it takes to put down the drugs, and head down the road of recovery without the one thing you’ve always counted on to make it through the days.
But you did it.
You may not see your children as often as you’d like yet, you may not see them at all. They may be too young to understand, or they may be old enough to grasp what has happened, and hesitant to trust you just yet.
Either way, you have already taken the first and hardest step. The blessings of recovery will come, but sometimes, they take longer than we’d like. If you keep doing the next right thing, I can promise you that everything will fall into place, over time, in God’s time. Trust in his process.
In case no one has told you lately, I am proud of you. You are the definition of a miracle and have already overcome so much. Please don’t be discouraged today, be grateful that you are alive to see this Easter Sunday, whether you have your little ones with you or not.
There is a lifetime ahead of you and plenty of time to make new memories. Be patient, remain grateful for the progress you have made, continue taking it one day at a time and I promise, your life will be more beautiful than you can even imagine.
Where there is breath, there is hope….